人到中年,要给自己留的七张底牌!说得太对了

2017年10月31日 | 作者: 甜甜蜜蜜 | 3,940 浏览
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老伴

少年夫妻老来伴,相伴一生的夫妻到老才最重要。家常饭,粗布衣,知冷知热结发妻。老了才真正懂得,知冷知热的老伴才是这一生最宝贵的财富。

我们首先要把握好自己手上的第一张底牌,那就是老伴!偶尔给老伴制造一点小惊喜,更不能因为照顾子女而忽视了老伴,要记住老伴才是陪我们到老的人。

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老家

人到老年要有个避寒挡雨的属于自己的家。要记住:父母的家永远是子女的家,而子女的家永远不是父母的家。

俗话说得好,金窝银窝不如自己的狗窝。因此,保护好自己的家,有家在,永远都是幸福的。

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积蓄

中老年人手中要有点积蓄,掌握好手中这张同样十分重要的底牌。钱不是万能的,没有钱是万万不能的。

我们不仅要舍得花钱,也要给自己留一点底,要兼顾好平衡。

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健康

身体是人生的本钱,对于中老年人尤为重要。硬朗的体质是财富,也是自立的本钱,更是对儿女们的最大付出和支持。

只有身体健康,才有更多的机会享受幸福快乐的生活,身体健康是一切的基础。

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老友

人说有朋自远方来,不亦乐乎。老了的时候还能约上几个老友,做点稀罕的事儿。溜溜狗、逗逗鸟、跳跳舞、下下棋,有老友在的日子总是不那么孤单。

人到老年更要多交朋友,多与人来往。网络开拓了与远隔千里之外的人的交往平台,通过微信就能更多地交友、会客。

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年轻态

人到中老年适度“老来俏”不仅是个人身心健康的需要,也是现代文明的需要。白发一经染黑就显得年轻许多;胡子勤刮可使颜面保持整洁,容光焕发。

老来俏不仅美化了自己、增添精神,也美化了社会,成为一道“夕阳风景”。还利于社交活动,益于身心健康。正如谚语所说“老要时髦,少要乖”。

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快乐

人到老年依然要保持快乐的心态,这是强身健体的要素之一。到了这个年纪,就是活一天、乐一天;乐一天,赚一天。

如果花钱能买到快乐,那就去学如何花钱;如果偶尔偷偷懒能换来快乐,那就学会科学地偷懒。反正,一切以让自己快乐为前提!


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