再读《荷塘月色》

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这几天天气极寒,又适逢两女儿放假,窝在屋里没出门。想起整个12月都没读散文了,挑了朱自清的散文集,第一篇就点开《荷塘月色》。

想必上中学时是要背诵这篇课文的。时隔三十几年再读起来仍琅琅上口,很熟悉的感觉。也许这正是朱自清散文的最大特色吧。

《荷塘月色》写于1927年,作者想逃避现实,无奈逃不了,借荷塘月色抒情。此刻,年过半百的我只对他那句“我爱热闹,也爱冷静;爱群居,也爱独处。”有些感慨。

同时拥有这些看似矛盾的习性,基本上能对尘世泰然处之了。群居时热热闹闹,开开心心;独处时清清静静,丰富内心。

当然,适合自己的生活方式是最好的。有人喜欢热闹多些,有人更喜欢独处。自由自在是最轻松的最令人愉悦的,但现实中却有太多身不由己。一切勉强都会令人生厌更别说强迫了。如果我是个内向沉默寡言的人,偏要天天应酬,我能感到自在吗?如果我是个爱凑热闹爱表现的人,却天天被关在家里,能不发疯吗?

不过,对于大多数中老年人,群居能让人兴奋快乐,增强活力;独居让人情绪低落,对疾病负面影响更大。所以,有几个志趣相投的朋友对健康的晚年生活是多么重要啊!

朱自清写这篇散文时不到三十岁,而且想必他是一个沉稳的人,才能独自夜赏荷塘,观察得如此细微。我这个怕黑的小胆人肯定是不敢单独夜游的,我更喜欢白天阳光下,与三五好友赏荷拍照。想来现在我是个爱群居热闹多过独居冷静的人了。

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