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成长的历程(一)

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那天和老板一起吃饭,席间他说, “SANMI, YOUR PARENTS MUST BE VERY PROUD OF YOU.” 我想是的吧。 记得87年参加完高考在老家过暑假,那天爸爸摸黑走了十几里的山路从乡里赶回家报告我一个消息,我们收到了天津大学的录取通知书。 我能感觉到爸爸难以掩饰的高兴。 没有香槟,没有庆祝,有的是对未来美好的憧憬。 其实我成长的历程并不是一帆风顺的,我带给父母的有快乐,但更多的是烦恼。 我妈妈不是”虎妈”,我爸爸却是标准的”狼爸”,是那种望子成龙,又恨铁不成钢的典型的中国老式的家长。 我有令爸爸妈妈骄傲和自豪的童年,也有自我迷失的青春岁月; 我曾经承载者全家的期望,我也曾经让他们一次次的沮丧和失望; 叛逆的个性造就了我和爸爸之间很深的隔阂; 我不知道在爸爸眼里我是不是满身缺点,在我眼里爸爸却曾经是个从来不曾关心儿子生活,难以沟通的”家严”。 从内心里对爸爸感情的转变是多年以后的事情了,但一直没有转变的是我们之间沟通的方式。 从我12岁离家外出求学,和家人总是聚少离多;后来毕业分配到异地,结婚生子,然后举家迁居加拿大,和家里人见面的机会更是少而又少。 妈妈二十年前已于我们阴阳两隔,爸爸也已日渐衰老,他的听力几年前就开始下降,视力也开始变差;看着爸爸日益稀疏,花白的头发和渐渐弓下去的背,总是让我止不住的要留下眼泪。 我想跟爸爸说,”谢谢你”。 这句话藏在我心里很多年了,但每次话到嘴边却终于没有说出口,语言是交流的工具,它却是我和爸爸之间的障碍。 很多年以来,我们一直疏于也羞于谈论感情,电话里问候的话总是简单的三言两语,我们已经习惯了彼此间的沉默。 可是我知道,我应该向爸爸说些什么。 我的爸爸妈妈是伟大的,他们是我的骄傲,他们也是他们自己的骄傲。 我终于决定要写些什么,我的笔不是最好的但却是我应该,也是我可以做到的。 我的成长,凝聚着父母的汗水,伴随着家人的期待。

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