日本女人和中国女人有啥区别?

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论男人最想娶哪个国家的女人?不用猜都知道是日本女人,日本男人大多数都比较大男子主义,恰好日本女人是出了名的听话,温柔贤慧,含蓄可人,对丈夫言听计从,绝无怨言。是当妻子的好人选。

我曾经看过一篇以偏概全的日本女人观文章,感觉上若让不明就里的人读了,非以为多数日本女人不幸地处于水深火热中不可。于是不禁要跳将出来,聒噪几句。

简单一些,将日本女人与中国女人比较,找出最大的区别处是:

其一,日本女人认为做女人很好,充分感受身为女人的喜悦。我们经常可以听到中国女人说,来世再不做女人了,这念头在日本女人中极少。

还有,我去看望过一位刚生产的日本女友,她的母亲也正好来了。女友说,昨天看到婴儿出来,我差点激动得哭了呢。母亲说,是呀,这是只有做女人才能体验的喜悦幸福啊。一个普通场景里,她们对身为女人的喜悦不言自明。

其二,日本女人比中国女人有忍耐力。我见过不少看似柔弱如水,而实际耐力极强的女人。她们掌握着外柔内刚的技巧,那甚至不用学习,是印在了遗传基因里的。举一个明显的例子,在产房,日本女人是不叫痛的。

其三,日本女人较之中国女人,对于性爱持开放态度。她们没有受礼教管束的后遗症,虽以议论性爱为羞,但不达耻,是比较原始的,人性的。正经与风情的界限模糊,可以戏称为披着纯情外衣的女郎。

这风情不是中国新新人类所摆出的纵欲姿态,是自然地享受,没心没肺的。所以,一百名女大学生在看到“贞操”一词时,只有两名答出了词意。

其四,她们婚前婚后反差巨大。从初长成到结婚,是骄矜的阶段,多数经济宽裕,任性游玩,包括体验男人。婚后基本都具贤慧品质,甘于琐碎,是过日子的好手。

书店里女性杂志、时装类多为青年女子设,已婚女性的杂志封页多有如何节约伙食费或者光热费的字眼。这种反差比中国女人的婚姻前后来得猛烈。

中国女人喜做男人的娇妻,日本女人兼任男人的母亲。一日,我亲耳听见几位日本太太谈论丈夫,其中一位说,他早上自己知道吃了简单的早饭走,余者赞叹:好能干懂事的丈夫哦。双方语气都如说孩童。

所以日本男人中有恋母情结者众,是自小被贤慧母亲照顾得无微不至,婚后的妻子于是以能充任妻子兼母亲职为己任,若能再兼情人,自是个中高手,不过这种情形不多。

又有一句老话,说女人最好是在家是主妇,在外是贵妇,在睡房是荡妇。这三妇之说,日本女人中合格者定比其它国家的多。如果我是男人,我就会希望娶日本女人,也就是说,日本女人的种种好处,是针对于男权社会的。

日本女人的好,暂时还不会变化,一个成熟的社会的变迁是缓慢的。在她们的女权意识觉醒以前,男人们还有大段时光可以憧憬日本女人。之所以这样说,是前阵子,一个日本女孩给我来信,说我以前说的日本女人缺少贞操观的说法让她不快,要与我讨论。

她说,“你知道现在的日本年轻女孩为何这样任性,贪图享乐,像你说的不知羞耻吗?因为日本女人一直被男人欺负惯了,我们的所谓堕落是一种反抗。”她的话代表了部分年轻女郎,看着祖母,母亲隐忍的一生而要创新的想法。

但是我知道她结婚后也会是贤慧女人,这看看她的母亲便知道。罗马不是一天修成的,日本女人的贤良,也不是隔一代就突然失传的,并且,环境也不允许她们思变。

虽然,很有可能,如果有人组织了游行示威要男女平等,将有许多日本女性,包括家庭主妇会以“闹女权革命了,同去同去”的心情结伴出门,不过基本上要赶着在丈夫回家以前告诉游行队伍,要去买菜烧饭。

人的本质也大多一样,日本女人也喜欢盲目跟风最随大流,也会在自己的小圈子里操纵自己的人生。

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