與你漸行漸遠的人

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前幾天,好友妮妮建了一個小範圍的好友群。將畢業後十年未見的英子加了進來。我熱切的回復“嗨,你最終找到英子了”其他好友的資訊也接踵而來“英子好!”、“英子怎樣不加我?”,可是,英子一向沒有回應。我心裏覺得有些不太對勁。便給妮妮發了私聊“怎樣回事?怎樣英子一向不出聲?”妮妮歎口氣,對我說起了她找英子的過程激光去斑價錢

原先,這幾年因為微信便捷,班級建了群,同學們除了英子基本上都聯繫上了,因為我們仨人以往住在一個寢室,感情上比其他同學要近一些。重感情的妮妮總念叨,這些年也不知英子過的怎樣樣?前陣子,經過多方打聽,妮妮聽說英子在縣城一個交警隊工作,剛好有點事去附近辦理,就直接打聽了一下是否有個叫李英的,得到確認後,妮妮興奮的幻想著見到英子時的激動場景,英子卻在見到妮妮時,表情淡淡的,妮妮問她“你還認識我嗎?”“嗯”…..妮妮說她倆並未說太多話,她加了英子的微信後就離開了,回來的路上,她覺得自我像是被迎頭澆了一盆涼水,心裏很失落。但想著也許相遇太突然,英子未醒過神,所以,拉她進了這個小範圍的好友群,沒想到她並不想與我們聯繫。我安慰了妮妮幾句,放下手機,心裏突然很難過,這十年英子到底發生了什麼?想起我們同吃同住,開心難過一齊過了三年,她怎樣就和我們漸行漸遠,甚至像陌生人一樣了呢家庭理財

龍應臺說過:“人生,其實像一條從寬闊的平原走進森林的路。在平原上同伴能夠結夥而行,歡樂地前推後擠,相濡以沫。一旦走入森林,草叢和荊棘擋路,情形就變了,各人專心走各人的路,尋找各人的方向。”

想起我從小到大,也已遺失了很多人。兒時的夥伴婷婷,上山下河形影不離;小學、中學時的好友閨蜜,我們有好吃的、好玩的、小秘密都會一齊分享,幾天不見就想的慌。以往,我以為我們會是一輩子的好朋友,一輩子不會分開,然而,隨著時間流逝,隨著我們各自奔向自我的生活,從開始的想念到之後的偶爾電話、QQ聯繫,再到之後的一點點遺忘,我們都有了自我新的朋友md senses 好唔好

不得不承認,有時是別人主動退出我的生活,但有時是我選擇了不再與她們聯繫。使我們漸行漸遠的,除了距離還有各自不一樣的生活軌跡。讓我們沒有了共同話題,讓這份感情的維繫,少了精神上的共鳴與認同,讓以往無話不談的好友,變成無話可說的尷尬。

宮奇峻的電影《千與千尋》中有一段引人深思的話:“每個人的一生都是從起點駛向墳墓的列車,有的人和你坐幾站就會提前下車了,而你要做的就是和他們揮手告別。”

所以,對那些與我們漸行漸遠的朋友,不必難過,不必遺憾,相信好的友誼不是為彼此停留,而是互相成就,即使不再聯繫,只需在心底默默送上祝福。

若是遇到陪我們一齊坐到終點的人,這是我們人生中莫大的幸運,請必須珍惜!

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