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人生匆忙,不過幾十載,每一天都在奔波,每一天都在奮鬥,不知不覺,一晃而過。到最後,無論你有什么,或者還沒有什么,也都終將要告別於世,歸於塵土。

其實,人生本來就是孤獨的,盡管我們有愛人,有子女,有親人朋友,但終究,自己的日子還是要自己面對,裏該有的所有酸甜苦辣,別人皆無法替代。不要奢望能夠依靠誰,哪怕是至親至愛。不要指望誰能在你無助困難的時候,能夠不顧一切來做你的支撐。不是人情涼薄,而是活著的每個人都有他的不容易。盡管人與人之間總是會有這樣或那樣的聯系,但每個人都是,都有自己的工作,自己的生活,自己的責任,自己的負擔。

越是喧囂處,往往更孤獨。心系一處,自走自路。孤獨是人生必走的路,必吃的苦。苦到盡頭,甘自來。獅子不怕孤獨,所以強大;羚羊喜歡群居,所以弱小。人生無處不修行,能在孤獨中心靜如水,才能在紛擾裏安然無恙。

生命中,有很多人,不是孤僻,而是有原則有選擇地社交。和喜歡的人千言萬語,和其他的人一字不提。不是所有人,都值得你敞開心扉,更不是所有人,都能懂你所言。

一件事,想通了是天堂,想不通就是地獄。既然活著,就要好好的活著。與人相處,不妨大條一些,即便有什么讓自己不舒服的地方,也勸解自己,不要太放在心上。沒有人可以做一件事能恰如其分,說一句話能恰到好處。只要心無惡意,又何必太過在意。想法少一點,隔閡就少一些,多一份理解,也就多一分愉悅。有些事想得太多,不但於事無補,反而是徒增煩惱。既不能改變現狀,還影響了積極情緒,仔細想想,又是何必?少一分在意,何嘗不是一種豁達,一種灑脫

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